George Andersen

Philosophical Counselor

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21 January
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Let’s find the right speed

As children, we feel that time passes slowly.  As adults, we try to keep up with the demands on our schedule.  Why are we running through life?  Here are some of the reasons that come up after a brief reflection:

  • we attend to tasks we need to accomplish
  • we feel that we need to make the most of the time we have
  • we believe that the more we do the better it is for us and our dear ones
  • we work more
  • we need to be busy for various reasons
  • we do not have the time to think about what we do
  • we do things because others do them too
  • we think that we have to do more than others to succeed

These reasons and many others are behind the rush that permeates our different roles in society (human beings, citizens, employees, parents, spouses, etc.).  When is it good to be on the run and when is it not?

The “right” answer is different for each of us; each of us have their own ways of being in this world.  As Carl Honore suggests in his book “In Praise of Slow”, the idea is to live at a pace that is conducive to a healthy and happy life.  It is up to us to define what such a life means and then adjust accordingly: neither too fast, nor too slow but at the right speed for each situation.

Let’s find the right speed.